3-i goes international

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THE PASSION OF WAR

I just read an article in a famous university here in our country, clue? It’s not just famous but it is one of the most expensive and one of the best here in our country. The alleged article was written by a friend of mine in high school, I think she knew that writing is one of my passions so he gave me a copy of the edition and I am very much impressed with the way every writer interacts with their entry.

But the thing that really caught my attention there is the article of my friend entitled ‘THE PASSION OF WAR’ and it entails different fact that people varies living naturally with their enemies and it’s a part of having life’s wall difficult to destroy. But in order to defeat enemies we should not do certain things that might let them win as thing really takes certain ways in order to achieve the desired outcome of winning and that’s the thing I wanted to share with you guys…

First, DO NOT BE ENVIOUS. Whenever your enemy attains something do not be envious of it... always assume that you can do something better than it.

DO NOT BE GUILTY… if you commit a crime and you are being caught don’t ever admit that you did it, instead play the game safely… because losers don’t know how to play the game.

BEING BITTER IS OKAY… feeling of being defeated is okay it is a initial response but don’t let anyone figure it out of you instead just think that it is a challenge of you.

DON’T BE TOO OBVIOUS once you attack do not let them figure that it was from you. Its very fun to play them without them even knowing. And once they get it they’ll felt such bitterness of being defeated and being insult. Getting caught with your actions means that you are not a good predator.

And then DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE YOUR OPPONENT, before you do any moves to attack your enemies you must think of certain things about him and about you. Make sure that once you pop it all out they can never pay back, there’s always pay back time and if you think you are the predator now, just bear in your mind that prey revenge more cruel.

My friend told me not to publish all the moves here, well I understand her point, she also has her own site thus I only chose such thing mostly incurred with all of us.

So far, I ain’t violated any of those. Right??? I think several people knows it.
So my dear 3-I let this be a guide for us to be undefeated with damn enemies.

One Step at a time

I really can’t imagine how fast life is. i only remember happy times I’m still having right now, but not the time spent with it, It all flew away and now its is near enough to see what might happen to me, our suffering will soon end and hopefully we’ll be successful in time.

Review started and as days goes by it’s turning more serious. Subjects taken are now being appreciated on how it’ll be used in the nearby future. Instructors begins to tell words of wisdom and so as expectations but with all of these it makes us ask ourselves if we are really ready for things might happened next.
Things are very unpredictable, people who we expect to be on top make it on their worst and vice versa and with this fact, it challenges us what we will be few times from now?

Despite of all these questions and pressures given it only dares us such thing: will we give our best to make it through? Are you confident enough that the best you are implicating will make you to the top?
Conversely, Living life happy and responsible is the key in our success. At least when time come for the outcome we might be proud that we did it all, responsibly, happily and with all our best efforts.

Sweet Revenge

Guys, i just want to share my short story entitled sweet revenge. i know na some of us makakarelate because they've been through these trials of having a relationship actually, a complicated relationships... in fact, this was supposed to be an article of mine sa Nurses Notes but it didnt qualify because of late na naipasa and lack of pages from the said chronicle.. (still i have some articles for the upcoming issue)... its actually a novel e na pinaikli para maging short story.. i can email the novel to u if u want just say so...

I guess, we deserve a background music upon reading to have heartfelt gratitude and implicating of the thought of the story... ur comment will be appreciated...

Click on the song before reading.. enjoi and reminisce



“Do you really love me?” Claire asked him, I know she saw me looking at them from behind, I know she really wants me to hear his response.
“Of course! That’s why I would like to end it all to her so we can be forever!” Kyle said. She looked in his eyes and she suddenly kissed him as passionate as it could be. I know she planned it all. She really wants me to suffer by letting go first than of Kyle so it could be lot easier for them to be free.

My tears wants to burst out of my lids of seeing my boyfriend Kyle kissing other woman and this woman is his ex. Hearing all of their show, he wants to end up with me so they can be together again.

I sat on the bench and forced myself not to even spend tears on it. I know that someone might saw me and I don’t want them to have pity on me just because I am being played by two unforgivable persons. I heard some steps walking towards me and I knew it’s him and now he is standing in front of me, and I raise my head to figure out if I’m right and yes, the man who fooled me is now in front of me. I stood up as if nothing happened but it seemed like he is too clued enough to know that I am not okay and so he muse over me

“Are you okay?” he asked

but before other things happened next I stopped it all and I slapped him in his face. Now he is holding his face mending the hurt it could bring we are looking in each others eyes and yes he is wise enough to never ask why, he already have all the explanations.

I’m Sorry” he uttered, but I left and never answered back I went rashly to the comfort room for my tears will soon fell off my cheeks. I don’t want to shed even a drop of my tears for him but it hurts, it really hurts and my heart seemed to be burning inside.

“I am so stupid of loving him!” I gave my all just to make us happy but then, I was being fooled, I’m the only one who loves him and that what hurts the most. But what can I do now? Even if I cried thousand liters of tears it will not bring him back and will never make him love me… Thus I should get over and that’s my last option. It’s really hard to get move on, everyday hurts but I must go on and be strong. I shouldn’t be the looser in the game.

I really want something that would help my emotions out of my chest and I know that this is through something that might feel them sorry that they did this thing to me and yes I mean it. I mean of Revenge! They fooled me, they make me feel like a stupid, being mocked around it’s just right to let them feel how much it hurts to be played, being a heart broken.

So I did, and I started by being friends again with Kyle and I know he will never refuse because I know that he even felt the guilt that he must feel after doing such damn thing to me. I texted him with sweet messages of mine, I tried to stole his time from her, I always asked him to go into our house because my mom wanted too (although it’s really not) or even ask some help for our major examination although I really have all the knowledge needed for it just to reassure that Claire would suffer. Until I slowly found out that what I’m trying now is to steal his heart back to me.

“I guess you are okay now” he uttered all at once “I gave you the utmost time I can offer to be sure that you are okay of what happened. And it’s now her turn, she really need me now” he explained, I know she is pertaining to Claire and I just nod as if I understand everything.

But I didn’t. I can’t figure out why does he is so attached to her. Why does all this time, with all of my effort he still love her and what I did are all nonsense… it’s just a commiseration of him because he left me out of the blue.

Later that night, I refuse when he asked me to take me home because I know that it’ll be harder for me if he’ll do things he used to. I started to muse over things. I remembered when he courted me; I really don’t know what does he liked about me. I don’t have any recognized special assets that would make him fall in love with me but the real me.

I fell in love with him of course. He really gave me such special attention I am longing for… he is very thoughtful and he is a perfect gentleman and maybe those are the facts that makes me so hurt when we separated our ways rather than being fooled by them. I heard the reasons and so it’s all up to me if I’ll consider it all.

It all ends with something unexpected. I never thought that my anger with Kyle and Claire would fade away this early. At least I’m not one of those usual girls out there who’ll spend some years to overcome heartaches. And my secret recipe? Is acceptance.

Acceptance that it’s me who makes the tiny whole grows, Acceptance that I did some revenge because I want him back and I don’t want him to be other girls and it’s me who makes things gone bigger than its usual but that revenge does not heal my wound, it makes it divulge even more because it only implies to me that he will never be mine anymore but at least I learned, we all learned

I really can’t imagine that after all, things will get well. Revenge is an act of a man when his body responds for some payback of things that never went off well and with Revenge; “I found what life is and what love is”

Caffeine during Pregnancy

It has been suggested that a high intake of caffeine during pregnancy might be associated with increased risk of impaired fetal growth or even miscarriage. Now a study in Denmark has shown no effect of reduction of coffee intake on birth weight or length of gestation.

A total of 1,207 women who drank the last three cups of coffee daily were randomized before 20 weeks gestation to take either caffeinated or decaffeinated instant coffee. The mean daily caffeine intake of caffeinated coffee group was 182 mg/day greater than that of the decaffeinated coffee group. The mean birth weights were 3,539 grams (caffeinated) vs 3,519 grams (decaffeinated). After adjustment for length of gestation, parity, pregnancy BMI and smoking, mean birth weight in the caffeinated group was 16 grams less than in the decaffeinated group, a non-significant difference. Similarly, length of gestation did not differ significantly between the two groups.
Therefore, drinking decaffeinated coffee did not affect birth weight or length of gestation.

Source: JPOG magazine May/Jun 2007 Vol. 33 No. 3

The Recent Epidemic

I went to the Cabanas last October 31 (Saturday) for a Halloween celebration with my high school peers, we headed to umbrella first to chill our minds and have our exchange of stories and experiences and so as the gossips.

We stay at the ground where there are stand up comediennes to enjoy the night first, and unknowingly comediennes intrigue me and make me sing for the crowd and after a long please I forgave them with my favorite videoke song ‘smooth’ by santanna and then another request ‘Bakit ngayon ka lang’ by ogie alcasid having duet with the comedienne and lastly by request ‘Tell me where it hurts’ by mymp.

After draining the barrel of beer, we headed and went upstairs and evolve from crowd to party people and so we did. Loud and lively music came up to me and makes me beat for every dip. And the climax of this story will just begin.

As I am enjoying my drink I started to observe the dancer, and what caught my attention was this guy dancing alone while his friends are only seating watching him from then on. Suddenly two guys walk dancing towards the dancing guy as if they wanted to dance with him. But the guy just turned around and never seems to mind. But the two guys insist and keep on dancing from his back while the guys refuses. I am in the midst of watching that issue when my friends invited “Tara lipat tayo” and so I stood up and followed them as we will transfer to the other bar just besides the alleged one.

“Buti hindi nagkaroon ng sapakan doon noh?!” I told one of my peers “The guy is straight that’s why he never mind those two bisexuals dancing with him” I explained “yung mga kasama nila sama na ng tingin sa bi e”

Another story is when we transferred to the bar besides the previous one. I am texting then, so I headed last to the new bar but before I headed I encountered this guy whose happen to get ‘tapilok’ in front of me, he smiled maybe due to his clumsiness and so do I just to say ‘it’s okay’.

“Are you going in?” he asked me. “Yeah! Nasa loob ang friends ko” I answered and so he did “It’ll be fun” then I entered the bar with due process. Another stand up comedienne came our path and makes us burst and laugh into death then after t comediennes’ session, a band headed next

I was amused when I saw some familiar face from the band, the guy I encountered outside is the lead guitarist of the band, and as they played I figure him out and I can say he’s cute.

The mode of the band are disco song and so as they played people starts to dance and had party and so we (my friends) did. I went to the comfort room to comfort my bladder and I got astound when I saw 2 guys inside the men’s room hugging each other. I pretend not to mind but I really did mind them. It’s not just an ordinary hug of friends reunited, because the hug is very passionate and to consider that they were in the men’s room, don’t they even consider discrimination from straight men if they will get caught?

I went back straight into the dance floor and danced with my friends. But suddenly my LLQ hurts so I decided to seat for a while. I just observed the dancers again and of course some of them caught my attention.

I guy danced with another guy whose happened to be new to him, I can figure it as I noticed how he approached him and I confirmed it when I stood up as if I am dancing again though my LLQ still hurts. I heard him ask ‘Ano nga pala pangalan mo?’ then, my mind started to issued them from then on.

After a while I saw them (the two guys) danced with other guy and shook each others hands. Then I amused ‘are all of the guys here belong to the next gender?’ alcohol intoxication disappears of me when someone holds my waist from behind and as I figured, it’s an unknown guy, wearing red and he have the looks I just forgave him and danced with him of all my efforts and we just thank each other after a song.

After the band, was another set of the comediennes and suddenly one of our clan (section i) is calling and so I harshly go outside to answer it but seems chappy so it’s very hard to communicate well. I ended it and asked the caller to call again after ten seconds and as I waited I noticed the guy I just met before I entered the bar a while ago, I suddenly think if ‘what if I’ll approach him? Will he entertain me too?’ but before I answered my questions, something came to fail it.

A transsexual (I supposed to be the manager of the band) approaches him. He introduced a guy to him and left them after, it seems like the guy being introduce had a crush on him as I heard the transsexual said “single siya, single ka… gusto ka niya, edi ayan!’ and then they are being placed on a 2 seater table as if to have certain privacies.. sabi ko nalang ‘Parang Café World, nahuli lang ng konti spoiled na’ then the ‘i’ called and it’s still chappy so we agreed na text text nalang. I re-entered the bar and continue the fun I was having.

I went home by 4am, and I cant sleep… I make some coffee and drink it on my terrace and gaze at the stars when I recall all of these.

I am happy that non-heterosexual had their freedom during things like those and it seems like most of us are dominant. I am just concerned that most of them, doesn’t mind limitation as they almost prefer that all of the people within the vicinity are all in the same line but they don’t. the bi wants to dance unknowingly that the guy is straight, two guys hugged in the men’s room without considering there are still straight men will use it and might saw them there might be discriminations, and the guys on the dance floor, having such guts to flirt all at once without having the fear of straight men’s rejection.

I never had that confidence during that night though I was sedately challenged by the toxins because I do know my limitations, I know what might happened for every action and I should be responsible for every of it.

I just want them realize that they should know their limitations too. It’s not always good that they’ll assume that everyone belongs to this while they must be the one who set aside because they’re still on matter of rejection and discriminations. Aun lang naman… it’s not bad to seek your fun and trips just with the right way of it, right time, right place, route and dose.