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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

2nd Year Anniversary: The Interview


I’m so happy and feel blessed as my (our) blog site reached this far, as I said I really never imagined this before and very nice feedbacks are very overwhelming supplement to rejuvenate me more than ever.

But I admit, that I’ve spent too little information about the creation of this site as evidence by certain questions that was given to me, through email, through chat or through private messages in facebook, thus I wanted to take this brief interview-like article to clarify things and of course to reveal certain information about the blog parse.
             
These are the question rendered with their corresponding answers


Sunday, March 27, 2011

Happy 2nd Year Anniversary!!!


I never thought we will reach this far with flying colors.

I wanted to thank all our blogs' supporters! You may expect a support from us too! 

I'm wishing all bloggers more power! more ideas! more interesting topics! more trends! more supporters and readers and more success in blogging!
and as of now, we are offering you 'cheers' for our celebration of 2nd year anniversary...
Cheers for the past Success!
Cheers for our current Success!
and Cheers for more Success to come!

aim high 3i! Success isn't made impossible! more power to us and long live all the 3i nasty nurses!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

The Feeling Gwapo


He is thin, he has numerous pimples on his cheeks and his teeth have unnecessary excesses though he had good eyes but he doesn’t look good and he doesn’t look well turned-out either. It’s not that I’m being ridiculous or mean again but I just want you to visualize the unseen picture because I think this guy never knew that he doesn’t look good.

“He is cute kaya?!” one of my friend said then he act as if he is humbly flattered. I just smile. I know my friend is kidding

He seems to be very friendly; he is a jolly person and he’s nice. So I never had any bad impression on him, but not when I found out his hidden agenda

“Hi can I have a seat then?” he asked unknown girls from the canteen, these girls are just new to the area. The girls allowed him though I was asking myself

“Why’d he bother to have a seat with the girls when there are lots of empty seats in the vicinity” I just observed the scenario after

“You must be new” he noticed

“Yes” the girls answered

And a few chit chat of introducing the new environment to them and afterwards

“You can give me your numbers if you like, so we can talk some other time” he said

I raised an eyebrow accidentally upon hearing that

The girls are just smiling at him, maybe they doesn’t want to give him their numbers

“Maybe some other time JB” one of the girls said

“Beside, we have few friends here who can give us a talk about here” the other girl said

And after few moments the girls left, with silly laugh on their faces.

One of JB’s friends approached him laughing

“What happened to you man? Those girls denied you?” he mockingly said

“Well, It’s their lost not mine” he said with a “gwapo” attitude

I almost throw up. Lol

- Another scenario-

“I wonder why JB is not going with us for lunch” Rhia told me

“I think it’s my fault” Marj

“Why?” I asked “Did you say anything offensive to him?”

“No, it’s just last week he asked if he could be my boyfriend but I refused and since that day he doesn’t talk to me anymore” She answered “He even said to me that he’s way better than my boyfriend, and that’s what makes me mad at him”

I almost fell to my seat upon hearing it. Marj is very beautiful, I even saw his boyfriend who looks good either and that makes them a perfect couple and now JB told her that he’s better than him? Did he mean in all aspects? I just hope not co’z I’ll be messed out with his overconfidence.

- Another Scenario –

We had a new workmate who is totally damn pretty. She’s a fresh graduate and she really looks like a super model though she’s not that tall, and I can attest that she’s a real goddess!

I was calling JB in his office due to some clarifications needed with his reports to me; his assistant was the one who answered the phone call who told me that JB isn’t there and didn’t tell where he’s going.

I decided to search for him within the area until I saw him at the office of the new employee.

I got interrupted on interrupting their talk when I heard what the conversation all about is

“I just want to invite you for a date on Friday night” JB said

“But JB, I’m not available on Friday” the new employee said

I think she’s just making an alibi

“then on Saturday night then?” he proposed next, he stated all the days of the week just to make her say yes.

And at that moment I entered the scene.

I invited JB outside the office because my thing is a bit confidential

He is shaking his head while smiling after he closed the door

I asked him why

“I was asking her for a date and she said no at first but eventually said yes” he answered

“So why are you smiling sarcastically at?” I ask next

“Well I always knew that she wants to go with me; she doesn’t knew that I know she’s acting as if she’s not interested” she said with that confidence again

Then it’s my turn to smile sarcastically before I relay my thing.

Jacob is a gay and I tried to discuss my observation of JB’s overconfidence with him

“Well, I also noticed that before” he just said “Do you know that all he courted every pretty employee of this company but he failed?” his trivia

“So, where did he get that confidence wherein he failed for such several times then?” I asked

“I don’t know, maybe because he once had a pretty girlfriend” he answered

“What happened to them?”

“I don’t know, maybe the girl woke up from her nightmare or maybe she accidentally hit her head on the wall and found out that she’s insane” he mockingly said

I just laugh so hard

“And here’s the worst thing of all” he said, I was mute and get curious “Do you know that he’s spreading the news before that I had a crush on him? His illness is totally severe!”

I am so speechless upon hearing that.

I, myself know that I’m not that good looking. I might brag sometimes about my appearance but it’ll be in a humorous way so that nobody will say that I’m serious saying it. I thought JB was doing the same thing at first, but courting all pretty girl employees? Nah that means some sh**

I really don’t know why there are people like JB. I’m trying to understand his situation at first, I just thought that maybe it is a personality disorder that might results anxiety if it’ll never be granted or done. But I wanted to help him overcome it because not all people understands him, other people who thought who’s with him might be discerning him on his back without him knowing and it’s not healthy. I don’t have any guts to tell him in front “hey! D’you thinks you look good? You kidding right?” or maybe in any other nice way, though I’m having an unstopabble mouth, I still have shame and limitations too right.

JB celebrated his birthday and I seize this chance to give him a hint on his thing. So I gave him a gift; A mirror with my note inside

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

You Caused your Broken-heartedness

“So what’s with you? Why’d you bring us here?” Joanna asked Alex as she brought us to a bar in Malolos and bought us some drinks too.

“It’s just I feel a lil’ bit lonely just now” Alex answered

“Is being single makes you lonely?” Claire asked him

“Well, I’m happy being single so I don’t think that I’m needing this” I’m pertaining to the beer. I am so not in the mood to drink and besides, I have a work the day after.

“Guys, I need you this time so please bear with me” Alex pleaded

I didn’t say anything and I enjoyed the night through the presence of stand up comediennes that makes me laugh so hard, but not when I assessed that Alex is drunk.

We decided to leave the area couple of minutes after the comediennes’ sets are done. Luckily, my friend does have a car so we go to the nearest coffee shop to buy some coffee and drink it inside the car at the parking area.

“So what’s the real reason why you invited us for some drinks?” Joanna asked Alex

“I already answered that” Alex said “I feel so lonely”

“What makes you feel so lonely?” Claire

“I feel so incomplete”

He’s getting a bit dramatic, maybe because of the alcohol intoxication

“I think I must have someone to share my life with” He said

“It’ll come” I said “You’re not the only single here, we are all single here”

“I’m tired of waiting” he said vividly “Tell me, am I ugly?”

“Of course not, you look good. You have a good white complexion, nice eyes and brows, nice lips” I tell him the truth “Except with you pores, it’s getting bigger. You’re really getting old” I was mocking this time

“Then why does she said no to me?” he asked

“She?” the three of us asked

We all know that Alex is bisexual. He even introduces his boyfriend to us before, and now she is referring to a ‘she’ - I got curious

“I thought, you are dealing with guys?” I asked

“I wanted to get married someday, I wanted to be settled and have kids” he owned up

“So who is this girl? I think you never told us the story about her” Joanna asked

“She’s my classmate in college and I courted her last month, until I found out that she doesn’t like me as she confessed”

“Well I can’t blame her” my unstoppable mouth is starting again

“Because I’m ugly?” he asked “Do I have to change how I look then?”

“There’s nothing wrong with your appearance Alex”

“then what?”

“I think she’s turned off of your sexuality”

A moment of silence between us. The two girls are just looking and listening.

“That’s the bitter truth of crossing the line, You just can’t say to her ‘I’m not gay! I’m just a bisexual who’s attracted to both gender’ because they’ll consider you as a member of third gender and who’ll be impressed of bisexuals who’s now scattered more than homosexuals?” I told him “You look good but they’ll prefer straights than those who are not, d’you know what I’m saying?” he’s silent “So it’s non sense being dramatically lonely when in the first place you created the cause of your problem. I’m sorry but that’s the bitter truth; if someone can understand and love you for who you are then be thankful but as of now, just don’t expect and try to be happy for your own good.”

We decided to depart

And while on travel, Alex is so silent.

I feel guilty, did I say something that hurts him a lot?

Anna and Joanna agreed on what I did, If I didn’t done that, who else will do?

Joanna dropped us home after.

And after a week, Alex is with another guy again.

“Bitchy Alex” I told him and I sighed.

Friday, March 11, 2011

We can help Japan through our Prayers


A Massive earthquake with a magnitude of 8.9 hits the eastern coast of Japan a while ago and recorded numerous and continuous number of dead people.


I was at work this day and I never had an idea about the disaster until I came home and watched the news that makes me so stunned after. I felt my heart beats so fast while seeing the video on how the disaster easily destroy one of the richest and most powerful country in the world; I almost can’t breathe watching how the waters flooded the entire area of Japan that wipe away all the sea vehicles to land and land vehicles going infinite destination knowing that there might be people inside it; I mean ‘what if I’m the one inside that car? Thrown by the fast splattering water? How can I escape? How can I survive?


The tsunami was forecast to hit our country and as of now, no major disaster hits it yet and I was hoping that there will be none at all.

Let us all offer our help to Japan and it could be best done by our solemn prayers


Lord, God all mighty.

We all discern that this disaster has a purpose behind.

We cannot turn back as the damage is already done now.

We are just hoping that people who were stranded will be rescued and people who need help might get assistance too.

And to those people who didn’t survive; we are praying for their souls to peacefully enter your paradise and be with you eternally.

We are also hoping for the security of one and all in the future.

We are also hoping for the recuperation of Japan the country most affected and so as the other countries experiencing same grounds such as earthquake in New Zealand, conflict in Libya and somewhere in middle east.

May people from other nations be united and peacefully help each other for revitalization.

In your holy name we pray,

Amen.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

We are Nurses!

She is the company nurse of our company. She’s doing her rounds every Wednesday; she checks the blood pressure of the entire employee to monitor if some of them are having foreseen trouble regarding their health. She also does the first aiding and health teaching for the employees too and this what makes a company nurse so essential.


“Good morning sir” she politely greeted me. “I’ll just take your blood pressure”

Then she did then she relay the results then.
And after a while she went into the boss and obtains her blood pressure too.

“70/50 ma’am” she relayed

“What? That is too low! I used to have 130/90 or 140/100” she insist

“Maybe you are taking some medications that might affect your blood pressure ma’am” she defend

I felt pity to people who’s being scolded in front of me so I stepped away. Then after a few minutes the boss called me.

“You are also a nurse right?” she asked me

“Yes ma’am” I answered

“Can you do the taking of my blood pressure?”

I looked at our company nurse if it wouldn’t offend her. She ask me to persist but before that, I tried to elaborate explanations without them even knowing that I am wasting at least 5 minutes before I go on taking the blood pressure. We’re taught that we must wait for at least several minutes to do the verification reading. Then after 5 minutes I took the blood pressure on the opposite hand where it has been taken.

“80/50” I relayed

The boss sighed “Well, at least I can breathe now” she said

I just tap the company nurse on her back to tell her don’t mind it and don’t be offended.

She just nods at me.

One day the employees were playing basketball during their free time. Almost everybody was there to watch and support. The game is hilarious and entertaining until one of them suffer sprain.

The company nurse quickly responds and assesses the situation. She decided to let no other move it and she gets a device to stop it from moving then the first aid medication kit followed.

She applied cold compress then.
But then, the boss yells

“What the hell are you doing? You should put anything hot on it!”

“But ma’am, I am applying what I just practiced in my field” but instead of listening to her the boss did what she wanted.

“You shouldn’t be doing that!” I stole the scene; I just can’t help it “You should be applying Cold compress in that case. Cold compress were applied intermittently for the first 3 days at least 30 minutes for every application to lessen the swelling”

They all stopped. I told her to continue what she’s doing.
She puts bandages on the right way and transferred the employee to the clinic and instructed him to elevate it most of the time.

‘Yes for venous return that will soon lessen the swelling’ my own rationale

One of the employees called the nurse again the other day.

“I’m having a trouble here” the boss started “I had a mistake on taking my medicine; I took nifedipine twice”

Nifedipine is a Calcium Channel blocker an antihypertensive drug which acts to decrease contraction of heart thus lowers the heart rate and blood pressure.

“I’ll just get my BP apparatus, I have to know what your blood pressure is” The nurse said

“I used to take nitroglycerine twice but it doesn’t harm me” the boss said
But the nurse still gets her BP apparatus and obtains the blood pressure of the employee

“110/70” she relays

“See? That doesn’t harm you” the boss said

The nurse just smiled and said

“I’ll be back after an hour to recheck your blood pressure” and leaved
But at the back of mind how come a vasodilator doesn’t have any harmful effect if you take it twice? It acts to lower the blood pressure right? So it only means the double the dose will be the double the action to lower the blood pressure and the lower the blood pressure can lead to Shock. Right?

The HR department called my attention one day for a private conversation. The first tell me all the situation above with their intentions

“Do you want to be the company nurse?” She asked me, I didn’t answer back. I don’t know what to say then “It seems like people here saw our current nurse to be very incompetent and they told me that they’ll be contented if you’ll be the nurse then”
To tell you honestly, of course I wanted to be the company nurse because I will be back in my own field again, it is somewhat so associated to my passion and who am I to say no? but…

“I beg to disagree ma’am and I won’t accept the offer” I said, she almost fell on her seat “Our current nurse is very competent. She won’t be licensed if she’s not in the first place” I continued “I actually admire her for her interventions and if I am in the same situation I really don’t know what to do first, as it’ll be my first case but she did a good job handling sprain cases, monitoring blood pressure and knowing what to do in case her client doubled the dose of their medicines”

“But that was totally the opposite of the employee’s complain” she insist
I think the difference is on the employee’s part” my opinion “they never gave her their trust to handle their health care so how could they see her effectiveness then?”

“When our boss told me to take her blood pressure I allotted 5 minsutes to do it so I could get the most accurate results; the BP obtained by our nurse is correct: a 10mmhg difference is very much acceptable upon obtaining BP on the opposite arms”

“The cold compress she applied is also correct. We are taught how to handle such cases and I know that she knew what she’s doing”

“The Blood pressure monitoring on our employee is also correct. The medicine used to lower the blood pressure and with taking it twice would double the effect of lowering BP that may lead to shock and more fatal case”
I elaborate it.

“I am not defending her because I am with the same profession. I am defending her because I knew that what she just did are appropriate and I appreciate it all; the thing our other employees lacking off to give”

“What is the sense of having a nurse here if they’ll believe more on the people who just said it’s right? We are not licensed for nothing ma’am, we are licensed because we can justify our every interventions”

After the talk I felt like I did something for the nursing community. I felt like I defended millions of nurses. Telling the whole world that ‘WE ARE NOT JUST NURSES!
But WE ARE NURSES! instead’


The company nurse thanked me.( ican't post the image of the message as it cannot be taken clearly) and the message was : Sir Thank you talaga! ikaw lang naka appreciate sakin and mabuhay ka sir! Pinagtanggol mo rin ang kapwa natin Nurse!

And the HR officer talked to the other employees the day after.

Friday, March 4, 2011

Me and My Unstopabble Mouth.

“Well, you had a point but you can’t blame her” I told my close friend Joana when we had a private chat in facebook last night; She is having a bit trouble with one of our friends due to a stuff that this girl failed to return for almost two months now “Well, at least give her more time to return it to you, and if she didn’t returned it for couple of months again then it’ll be the right time to confront her” I added.

“But it’s been two months! It’s too long and it’s enough” she sounds very mad

“My Gaadd Joana. It’s just a __(name of the stuff)__”

“It is expensive!” she defended

“I think she could reimburse if it was mislaid” I told her

“It means a lot to me…” she continued

“Then why did you let her borrow it?”

“Because I trusted her”

“Then trust her again that she’ll return it to you whenever she had the time, perhaps”

“Ah basta! I’m so disappointed of her! I don’t think our friendship will prolong”

“Duh?!” I countered “You’ll waste your friendship with her just because of an unreturned damn __(name of the stuff)__?” I said, mockingly sarcastic “How cheap you are and how shallow reasoning?” I said after.

***Joana is offline***

O-oh! I think I offended her


“She had a miscarriage!” my friend told me, we chatted in facebook too

“Oh, I feel sorry for her” I said “Well maybe it is really not the right time for her to have a baby” I reasoned after

“It’s a gift from God!!” my friend defend

“I know, but look at it; they (The couple) even don’t have anything for living? How can they provide their child’s needs?”

-not responding-

“And besides they’re family were anticipating that they’ll save them from what they’re having right now so how could you say that they should be glad if it happened while every dreams will endure? I think it is meant to be. They’re really not yet ready. It was just a mistake” I narrated

***Khaye is offline***

I think I offended her too. Then I recall that she had her baby when she was 16, she was not ready then, and her family expects something from her too.


“I am so pissed today!” my friend Crissy, on facebook again

“Why?”

“I had encounter this new officemate of mine who hit me with her sarcasm!” she shared

“Just let it slip. She won’t excel if she does have that stances” I said

“Absolutely! but I am so pissed of her, really!” she continue “and she’s acting as if she’s pretty!” she added

“As if you are! Lol” I joke

***Crissy is offline***

OMG! Well I forgot that we all know and she even admits it that she’s not pretty.

I am so mean… I admit it. I know being too straightforward is erroneous but I just can’t control it sometimes although I’m trying. But then, I never consider truth telling as avoiding outlook, but I believe that it shall be done in a nice way. Because if you won’t tell the truth to somebody then who else will do? Do you consider yourself a good friend if you can’t even say what’s worst in your friend?

After two days the four of us met and I asked them

“were you offended?”

“Why should we?” Crissy said

“We used to hear it from you, duh?!” Khaye added

“But if other people told those things to us then we might be in a fight right now” Joanna stated

I just smiled. And I realized; these are how true friends we are: we knew and understand each other so much. I’m lucky that they’re my friends. As if not, then I might be in trouble now.

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