Love is blind

“Oh my God!” my friends suddenly whisper when we are in the church for Sunday mass a while ago.

“Why? What’s wrong?” I asked

“He’s the man of my dreams” she said while starring on the alleged man and well he is cute, he is gorgeous and he can be her man of her dreams she’s telling.

I keep on laughing whenever I see my friend having a glance constantly to that guy and I also said “Cheap huh!?”

“You’re so mean” she just answered back but a girl suddenly seat beside that guy and had a kiss on the cheek too, I saw the scowl in my friends face right after. “Is she his girlfriend?” she asked, I did not answered back “I look better than her right?” her next question

I assessed the girl and yes, she’s right. The girl is not so pretty for a guy like his boyfriend.

“That’s how it goes. You can never blame them” I said. “You’re prettier than her, then be happy with that at least”

“Love is really blind!!” she mocked.

I was amazed that last statement, I suddenly wonder why there are people who’s almost perfect had a partner who’s almost their opposite? Are they satisfied with their perfection so they seek less perfect one. Why do we keep on dreaming for the perfect one with pretty face? Does it mean we are not perfect and we’re ugly?

The truth is that Love is not blind that way. Love is called blind whenever you can’t see the bigger picture beyond the reason you just believe for the sake of mutuality of feelings with you partner or a thing. The “Love is blind” statement of my friend is more literal, she believes that the man is blind because he can’t see the real appearance of his girl. But it’s his choice and we can’t always blame them. A man always has standards whenever seeking a partner and it so happened that this man find those with this lucky girl (haha do I really have to call her lucky?) and in return this girl will provide all the needs of this man and this man will do the same in return, and that’s love.

Love is not blind. It can see but it only doesn’t mind.

“Never get insecure, you will find someone who’s a lot better and is destined for you just wait patiently” I advised.

I whisper as if I’m talking to that guy “It’s your choice… but if you change your mind, I’m always here.. haha kidding”

And I also talked to the girl through my mind “You really had a long hair!! Share us your luck some time”