I admit that I've been in a phase
wherein I am so sensitive. That even a single unlikable word will really piss
me off. But as I have learned and grown up matured I have realized that being
too sensitive will never really help me at all, so I became more understanding
and patient.
I remember that the last moment I have
been offended was when I read this article about Nurses, I even had a blog on
it We are not Just RNs!! We are RNs!! and when I experienced being Power Tripped and being Bullied (I guess)
and these three issues are very obviously offensive at all but now, I just
experienced one of the shit-est offensive thing ever!
First Issue, In some activity,
we have to look for a partner and I was partnered with
this girl and since we were partnered we are supposed to help each other right?
One time, she was having trouble with something whivh is very unusual
and since I am her partner I said “Wait, I will look for some help” and so did I. I called one of the people who obviously know the answer and they respond and approach us. But the offensive thing that the girl did is that she still stood up and is calling the attention of the other people who knew the answer though
I already did that. My eyebrow raised, Is this girl has an issue on me? I said I will call for
some help right? But since I tried to be more understanding I just let it
slipped and said that maybe she is really panicking that moment
Second Issue: Is an issue that
happens a lot. I often see this girl at the bus when I am heading home but
then, this girl seems never noticed me as all! As in Deadma!.. even when we’ll
bump each other while walking she never even smile or say 'hi' as in deadma lang talaga. I even remembered when this girl closes the door of
the elevator when I was about to come diba naman?. And one time, I let him pass and ride on the
elevator and I just waited for another one just to never be with her then.
And the last issue. Is when she
is asking for some help for the issue she can’t resolve (again). I tried helping her
with that though I am so bitchy of her but since I am trying to avoid my bitchy
attitude I stay calmed and friendly and I know I gave the right answer but the
girl asked for some more help, wherein they just told her the same thing, she did not even say thank you for helping at least. I
just let it slipped, I just said that maybe she really wanted to make sure. But
the damn thing is she keeps on doing that thing and it is really pissing me off!
I tried telling this to some of
my friends, But they said that I am just too sensitive. They said that she is
just like that, she is not that approachable but she is trying to be friendly
as possible and that I just misinterpreted everything. But damn! Am I just
sensitive or she is just too offensive? I know that she is not that friendly but is
it enough grounds to do such thing like prig you down the corridor or even
closes the door of the elevator for you not to hop too? A simple thank you
would help ease the situation of answering her queries then why can’t she do
that if she is really trying hard to be friendly or not to offend somebody with her freaking attitude? And this does not happened once. I am not that obnoxious to treat things
like this if it just happened once. Duh?!
I know that you cannot please
everyone but if that’s the case then stop doing things that will freak them out
right? I am just so offended of all the things she did and so I decided to stop
minding her, not talking to her and not approaching her at all as it’ll be less
stress on my part.
And let me tell you this.
Stop thinking that I am trying so hard for us to be friends because I am not. I am just trying to be nice but If you don’t like me then just
say so, we don’t have to pretend that we are good anyway. Be professional at least!
